Youth & Teen Development

Why ‘Wild Summer’ Doesn’t Work for Every Family

Laura Mahan, Director of Overnight Camp Strategy, YMCA of the USA

How YMCA Camps Make Summer Memorable for All Kids

Why ‘Wild Summer’ Doesn’t Work for Every Family

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You’ve probably seen the buzzwords floating around lately: “Wild Summer,” “Kid Rotting,” or the idea that children should spend their summer completely unstructured; roaming free, unplugged, and discovering the world on their own. As someone who has worked in youth development and camp leadership for many years, I understand the appeal. It sounds nostalgic and idyllic. 

But the truth is, that picture-perfect “wild summer” simply isn’t realistic (or accessible) for many families. 

Parents working full-time, caregivers juggling multiple jobs, and families without flexible schedules can’t leave kids unsupervised for hours on end. I talk with these families every year. They want their children to have adventure, joy, and freedom, but they also need safety, structure, and support. 

That’s why YMCA summer camps exist. We create environments where every child can experience excitement, exploration, and connection; even if the classic “run wild all day” summer doesn’t fit their family’s reality. 

Freedom Within Structure 

At YMCA camps, I get to see firsthand how structure and freedom can work beautifully together. Kids are exploring, learning, and playing, but with experienced staff who guide them, support them, and ensure they’re safe. 

Kids playing with a ball outsideTheir days might include hiking, swimming, creative arts, boating, archery, or team games. But the real magic happens when campers are given a choice and voice to explore the things that interest and excite them. This is when a camper discovers a new interest, conquers a challenge, or builds a friendship that may last a lifetime. 

A truly “wild” summer isn’t just unstructured free play. It’s giving kids the freedom to explore their world with the confidence that caring adults are right there beside them. It’s allowing kids to fail and to learn from those failures. That’s the balance we strive for at YMCA camps. 

Accessible for Every Family 

One of the things I’m most proud of is that YMCA camps are designed with accessibility at their core. Families don’t have to overhaul their lives or take extended time off work to give their child a meaningful summer experience. 

With structured schedules, age-appropriate programming, and well-trained staff, we ensure that all children, regardless of their family’s financial realities or availability, have the chance to thrive.  

I see it every year. Kids come to camp unsure or nervous, and they leave with new skills, new confidence, and new friends. That’s their version of a “wild summer” - one full of growth, adventure, and belonging. 

A Summer to Remember 

Summer doesn’t have to be chaotic or completely unstructured to be memorable. To me, a “wild summer” is less about where kids roam and more about what they discover along the way. 

When we give children the right kind of freedom - supported by guidance, care, and opportunity - they flourish. And families get to enjoy something equally valuable: peace of mind. 

Every child deserves a summer full of adventure, and every family deserves the confidence that their child is safe, supported, and having the time of their life. 

Here’s to a summer of adventure! 

About the Author

Laura Mahan has spent more than 30 years growing, shaping, and championing the power of camp within the YMCA. Her journey began where many great camp stories start; on a summer leadership staff team at Flat Rock River YMCA Camp in Indiana. At the time, she was pursuing a degree in Aeronautical/Astronautical Engineering at Purdue University, but it didn’t take long for her to realize that her true passion was helping young people discover confidence, connection, and adventure through camp. 

Over the decades, Laura has served in a wide range of YMCA roles, including youth and camp director, branch executive, and consultant supporting Ys at the local, regional, and national levels. Her work has taken her from the Treasure Valley YMCA in Boise, Idaho to the Mountain States Alliance of YMCAs, where she supported Ys across Idaho, Montana, and Wyoming. 

Today, Laura serves as the Director of Overnight Camp Strategy at YMCA of the USA. She considers it a privilege to work alongside overnight camps across the country, championing programs that help young people thrive and ensuring the magic of camp remains accessible to all. 

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