On Monday, August 2 at 5:30 pm you and I are being asked to participate in a community rally called Reclaiming Our Communities. If you want to see why I will attend and why our Y has made every effort to support the organizing efforts, read In Honor of Courtney Graham.
As another homicide unfolds in the service area of the Jackie Robinson Family YMCA, I keep thinking about Amber DuBois and Chelsea King and how the community response led to supporting the arrest, prosecution, and conviction of John Gardner along with new legislation that might stop the next tragic loss of life.
Courtney Graham, 25 had been coming to our YMCA since he was four years old. There are fifty-two gang sets in our YMCA service area.
Please take a moment to read Courtney's obituary. When you do you will find the following:
- Courtney Dan Keever Graham was born April 14, 1985 to his devoted and
loving parents Dan L. Graham and Kristy L. Mckinney in San Diego,
- At the young age of 4, he started playing T-Ball at the
Jackie Robinson YMCA where his passion for sports grew.
- His early
education was received at Webster Elementary School.
- He attended San Diego School of Creative and
Performing Arts where he learned one of his numerous talents:
- During his high school years Courtney attended Crawford
High School where he played both football and basketball.
graduation, Courtney enrolled at Southwestern College where he continued
to play football, while taking courses in general education and
- He loved his family, and his pride and joy was his nephew and niece,
who he introduced to everyone.
- His humility allowed him to inspire
others, which is one of the many reasons he got along well with everyone
both white and black alike.
- He was a personable, intelligent, and
motivating young man; who was always Ã¢â¬ÅGoing HardÃ¢â¬Â for what he believed
in and doing so in a positive manner.
- Courtney or Ã¢â¬ÅCoCoÃ¢â¬Â (as he was
affectionately known by his family) was always curious for the next
level of technology. This interest allowed him to often make late night
trips with his best friend Derrick to Borders Bookstore on a quest to
learn something new.
- Courtney loved computers and often repaired and helped rebuild them
for friends and family.
- He photographed local artists for their album
covers, created graphics, websites and logos.
- Courtney had a list of
ideas beyond measure in his gifted mind. He possessed an amazing
entrepreneurial spirit, which he was in the process of unleashing to the
world, all while drinking his beloved cup of coffee.
- He was very excited about working at the Comic-Con Convention
for his second year in addition to his day job at Belmont Park in Mission Beach.
- Courtney was preceded in death by his father in 2006 and his mother
- He is survived by his Grandmother, Henrietta Ayers; Sister,
Teariny Ballard; Nephew and Niece, Khristien and Khori Hilliard; Aunts,
Mary Murrell and Donna Ayers of Memphis,TN; Uncles Walter and Joe Nathan
Ayers; Cousins, Cheryl, Stacey and Toni Murrell, Christopher, Danielle
and Nikia Ayers, Maeghan and Tyler-Lynne Murrell.
- Although his life was brought to an abrupt end, his light will
continue to shine in all of us.
Unlike the closure that came when the one responsible for taking Amber and Chelsea's life was removed from civil society; those responsible for the deaths of Aaron Cooper, 15 (8/12/2006), Monique
Palmer, 17 (12/6/2008), Michael Taylor, 15 (12/6/2008), Donnell
Davis Jr., 15 (3/16/2008), Brandon Johnson, 16 (3/16/2008), and Courtney
Graham, 25 (7/20/2010) are still at large. These names only represent a few of the unsolved homicides with a connection to the Jackie Robinson Family YMCA. There are many, many more that need the support of every San Diego County resident to insure every community is reclaimed.
Be sure that everyone you love visits http://www.sdcrimestoppers.com
and http://psnsandiego.org in
honor of those that have lost their lives and in response to the following crime reports
from the service area of the Jackie Robinson Family YMCA over the past two weeks:
dies after stabbing in Skyline Park (7/26/2010)
shot in head not expected to survive (7/24/2010)
shot by carjackers in National City (7/22/2010)
looking for man who attacked teenage girl (7/20/2010)
fatally shot in Oak Park is identified (7/20/2010)
shootings reported within one hour (7/17/2010)
Then, join me at Reclaiming Our Communities tomorrow night (Monday, August 2) at 5:30 pm. Leading this effort are Mario Lewis, Owner/Operator of Imperial Barbershop and Courtney Graham's best friend Derrick Banks who works with Mario. Please join them in this movement that will make a difference for the kids and families living in San Diego County's most critical community.
Life is not a spectator sport. If you`re going to spend your whole life
in the grandstand just watching what goes on, in my opinion you`re
wasting your life.
Michael Brunker at http://twitter.com/michaelbrunker